first time in a serious relationship?

Question

I've talked and went on dates with many guys but never looked to be in a relationship until I met my now bf of two years. I sometimes get offended by some of the comments he make. He says in all his other relationships his exes never cared about him texting females all the time or what he was up to. He said it's my lack of experience to why I act that way ? 
I caught him texting sex things once to his friend and it took me like min to move on from it and he said If I had any bad relationships I would realize that sexting wasn't as bad... Which I know compared to most but damn my feelings are still to be validated .

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He is disrespecting you and taking advantage of the fact that you don't have much experience. He cannot compare you to his exes, you should dump his ass and tell him to go to his exes who will accept his behavior. He doesn't validate your feelings and you deserve so much better

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hes utterly taking advantage of you because of your inexperience. sexting is cheating. he has cheated on you. and if hes  done it through sexting chances are he had physically or will physically cheat on you soon. drop that cunt. you deserve so much better, and then youll actually be able to say you have the experience to know what isnt okay.

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He's an idiot and it seems like he's taken advantage of the fact that you have never been in a serious relationship before and using that as an excuse. He should not be doing those things and if he truly cared about you he would stop. If he is sending sex things to "friends" while he is in a relationship with you that's basically saying he doesn't respect you or y'all relationship. You need to talk to him and tell him you're not gonna tolerate that and if he continues doing the things he is then you're not gonna be with him.

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That's bullshit. And by the way he blows this off I think he just doesn't look at the relationship or you the same way you do to him. If he can't stop doing things you don't like and same for you then you guys should not be together because all you will do is hurt each other

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A guy who truly loved you and cared for you would change his ways for your sanity and comfort.. I'm sorry girl. You deserve someone who loves you to no end.. not uses and abuses his power over you. Dump him. It may not feel the best right now considering your feelings for him.. but you will be so glad down the road.

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