How did you and your so get into this type of relationship? We've recently been playing around with the idea (for a few months now), but I haven't been able to figure out how to really get my guy into it or let him know that I really really would enjoy this type of relationship with him. I want him to take charge without me having to tell him what to do, cause that would defeat the purpose. .. hes a little shy but I've seen his dominant side and I want that side to come out a lot more often! It's so sexy. Help!