I'm sixteen my mother abused me since first grade and I haven't been able to do school since fifth grade and am now going to finish school quickly and a finishing school she let her fiancee choke me and I now have a better life with my long term boyfriend whom I love with all my heart and were trying for a baby I've raised two of my sisters from new born to 3 1/2 and we've set out a life he has just graduated and has a job paying at 20 an hour do you think I'm ready for a family of my own or is this societys version of "bad"